Unspoken Rules for Men || Life Rules for Personal Growth

 "The Real You"

Unravelling the Rules of Being a Man

By shedding light on the unspoken rules that often constrain men, this piece inspires readers to embrace their individuality, find strength in vulnerability, and redefine masculinity on their own terms. Ultimately, "The Real You" sparks a much-needed conversation about embracing uniqueness and personal growth, fostering a society that celebrates the richness of diverse male identities.

In some cultures, men may be expected to exhibit certain characteristics or behaviours that are considered as stereotypically male, such as being strong, aggressive, and assertive. Women, on the other hand, may exhibit stereotypically feminine characteristics or behaviours, such as being sensitive, nurturing, and caring.

The promotion of an inclusive and equal society depends on striking a balance between societal expectations and true self-expression.

Furthermore, a number of people choose to express their identities in ways that defy social norms and reject traditional gender roles.

Following unspoken societal norms as a man may be crucial for some people in order to feel accepted, conformist, and a part of society. 

Rules for a Fulfilling Life

1. Never shake a hand whilst you are sitting down.

2. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you.        

3. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest.        

4. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.        

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation.        

6. Don't take credit for work you didn't do.    

7. Don't blame, and give credit when due.        

8. If you are not invited, don't ask to go.        

9. Always aim for the head.        

10. Don't beg for a relationship.                

11. Dress well no matter what the occasion.        

12. Always carry cash.        

13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact.        

14. Show restraint in expressing anger, no matter what. Being angry is a waste of energy.        

15. Weather is dinner, drinks, or both, avoid placing your phone on the dinner table.        

16. Never pose with alcohol.        

17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Leave the foul language for the less educated.        

18. Ask more than you answer.        

19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake, so make your strong and firm.        

20. Speak honestly. Say what you mean and mean what you say.        

21. Don’t lend money to your family. Give it.   

22. Don't throw your friend under the bus to impress someone.          

23. Don't use the urinal next to an occupied one.        

24. Don't take out your phone during a conversation.         

25. Don't make fun of your friend in front of his kids.        

26. Never let emotions overpower you.        

27. No one cares if you are offended, so stop it.